Al and I decided it was time. We have been talking about getting married for a few months now. I think we both know what we want and we are more than ready! I know that he is who I want to be the father of my children. I know he is who I want to commit too. I know there are a million corny cheesy cliche things I can say. All I know is I have never been more sure of anything. He is the one who I want to share my life with, he is what matters most, he is the "one". Love you babe!
Everything for our engagement came at a time when my best friend is getting ready to marry her guy! Al and I had were planning on waiting until right after their wedding to make our announcement. I just saw no reason to mention it quite yet since their wedding was a week away. I felt like it was her time and wanted all the spotlight on her. At Wendys Bachelorette party, I mentioned to a friend of ours that Al and I were getting engaged but we were keeping it hush hush. Wendys parents and her fiance Lee's family were all arriving in a few days for her shin-dig and I know she was super stressed! They had only 3 months to get everything put together for their wedding, plus having out of town visitors!! I was pretty excited since it was my first time being in a wedding; I wanted to make sure everything went well! We had a big rehersal dinner at a friends house. The dinner was really nice and we all got a chance to meet each other and over all the wedding plans. Much to my disapointment, a friend of Wendys got wind of our news and decided to spill the beans at dinner. I was actually so angry and embarrased that he would do that. He joked about saying it earlier in the evening and I repeatadly told him not too. It was not the time or the place. I also wanted to be the one to tell her. When he started to announce it I was in total shock. This was my news to annouce, while his intentions were really good. I knew Wendy would be upset. I have known her for along time and I know that was not how she wanted to hear it. I was actually really bugged by this for a few days and even felt like I owed them an apology. I really don't like how you have something all planned out the way you want it to go and you truly have the best of intentions, but it gets all screwed up. So instead of getting upset I just decided that whatever happens...happens for a reason. I just truly felt it was not the time or the place to make an announcement like that. However we are all in love and happy soo who really cares in the end. All that matters is love...right?
We picked out our rings about a week before and I was dying to wear mine!! We made the announcement "officially" the next day. We are so very happy. Our life is wonderful and more than I have ever imagined. It's so many simple things that bring me such joy! I love our decision that we made together....to spend our lives together always.
7/14/2011
Wendy and Lee Wedding Girdwood
The wedding was so great. All the stress and work they put in sure paid off. Even though we were gluing jewels on shoes the morning of; it all turned out perfect. I haven't gotten to spend much time with them as a couple but they really seem happy. I have known Wendy literally forever. I think her and Lee have so much to look forward too. They have had some really tough obstacles to overcome....like a freakin ocean between them for over a year. If they can make it through that then it must be love! I am going to let them enjoy their married life for a bit, but hope to see them more in the future. It was really cool to have her parents here too. I haven't seen them in about 8 years! The photographer, my fiance, was so great! Their pictures turned out so amazing! Here are a few....